Sex are the actions animals (we will leave plants and other forms of life out of this for now) do to satisfy the basic ingrained drive to reproduce and make more of themselves. Since humans are animals (nope, not minerals or vegtebles), we have varying degrees of sex drive.

When you have sex it does not mean there is love. Some people just have sex because it brings them pleasure or attention ... or both. Some do it just because they are bored, need money, enjoy sex, want attention, want acceptence, or are drunk. The best way to have sex is with someone you LOVE, when the time is right.

Make sure you know the difference! Do not confuse someone you Love to have sex with (meaning you love the sex action) with someone who you love.

When you love someone, it does not mean you need to have sex. When you are a loving couple, you do not need to have sex. If one or both of a couple want sex, then it is becomes a factor of a relationship. For a couple of age who love each other sex is a normal part of a relationship.